TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I am a virgin and I am waiting until marriage to have sex, but the man I am going to marry has had sex once before. I am extremely understanding and forgiving, but it is still hard to think about him being with someone else. I guess I just don't know how to get past it and not get upset or think about him being with someone else.
TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for contacting TEEN LINE! It sounds like you are feeling a little uncomfortable about your fiance having had sex before. It's really great of you to make an effort to understand where he's coming from. Maybe if you and your fiance keep an open line of communication about it, you can work toward moving past this issue. Also, maybe if you talk about how you are feeling with a friend or someone you trust you will feel better about the situation. You are also welcome to call us at 1-310-855-4673 (6pm-10pm PST, 7 days a week) or chat with us at teenlineonline.org.
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