TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
im terrified that i have an std. ive had sex with three guys this year unprotected. i have sex alot because im very insecure and a sexual being. i need advice. my mom knows ive had sex but she doesnt know how often. me and my moms relationship in hanging by a strand and if i asked her to take me to get tested it would be a scary and stressful experiance. if i do get tested confedentionaly(i already know how to) and i come out positive i will HA

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, Thank you so much for contacting TEEN LINE! It sounds like you are feeling really conflicted and anxious with the possibility of having an STD. Maybe talking to a school counselor, teacher, or trusted adult about your situation could help you figure out your options. It might also help to talk about other issues going on in your life that you mentioned, like the difficulties with your mom and your feelings of insecurity. There is an organization called Planned Parenthood at (800) 576-5544. There you can be confidentially tested for STDs and if you do come out positive they can counsel you on your options. They can also talk to you about different birth control. We are also here at TEEN LINE from 6:00pm-10:00pm every night at 310-855-4673 if you ever want to talk. .

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I went and got high with a few friends. They were friends with a 23 year old, D, who was there too, and we had met before. We were acquaintances, almost friends. They all passed out except for D and I, but I was sleepy, so curled up next to him and fell asleep on his chest. I wasn't completely asleep when I felt his hand snake under my shirt, reaching into my pants, and the other started fondling my chest. I dunno what to do.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey,
Thanks for emailing us here at TEEN LINE. You must be feeling confused, scared and overwhelmed right now. I'm really glad you had the courage to tell me about what you went through. It sounds what he did was inappropriate and illegal and you have the right to protect yourself. I wonder if you have told anyone about this, like a friend, a trusted adult, a school counselor or the police? I want to give you the phone number to an organization called RAINN where they can help you. They specialize in talking with girls who have also been violated in similar ways and they can help you to discuss your feelings about this experience and the options you have. Their phone number is (800) 656 4673 and you can call them or go into one of their clinics to talk to someone there. You can also feel free to call us here at TEEN LINE if you want to talk about this or anything else that's bothering you. Our number is (310) 855 4673 and we are open from 6 to 10pm PST. Please know that there are options and you are not alone in this.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
So, I've been talking to this for quite a while and I really like him. I told him that I'm a virgin, but he isn't. We're going to prom together and he was talking about how he wanted to be my first. I told him that I'm not sure if I'm ready or not. He said that he would wait for me, but not wait forever. I mean I want to do it with him but at the same time I'm not sure. And I'm very self-conscious about my body. I talked to my sister about it and she said that if I decided too then use protection, and I know to use protection. I'm just very confused and I don't know what I'm going to do.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, Thanks for contacting us here at TEEN LINE. It seems like you are feeling conflicted and maybe even pressured have sex with this guy. It's really important that you feel ready and that you don't feel pressured to do anything you aren't comfortable with. Maybe you can talk to another person you trust about how you are feeling so that you can become more clear. Also, writing in a journal may help you make a decision you are comfortable with and feels right to you. You mentioned using protection and I'm really glad that you want to protect yourself. If you do decide to have sex with this boy, you can go to a Planned Parenthood clinic near you to get free condoms. Their number is (800) 230 7526 and here is a link to find a clinic near you: http://www.plannedparenthood.org/. You can also call us here at TEEN LINE if you want to talk more. Our number is (310) 855 4673 and we are open everyday from 6 to 10pm PST.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I am having a lot of problems at home. I dont know what to do anymore. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for 8 months now. We love each other very much however noone seems to believe it. Noone, being my parents. We do have a sexual relationship which is what this is all about. My father caught me and my girlfriend doing the deed in my room. My dad had me when he was 17 so he is always thinking i will automatically have a kid if i have sex. We are very safe about it. We dont do it often and when we do we always use protection. Now since my parents know that our relationship is to a sexual level they are trying to split us up. However, they arent making us split up. They just will not let me see her outside of school. She is a senior and i am a junior therefore i never get to see her at school either. We truely love each other with all of our hearts. My family agrees that the way my parents are acting is ridiculous. My step grandfather has even offered me a room at his house. I have seriously been considering going and living with him. But i just do not know what to do. which is why i guess i turned to this website, because its a last resort. please help me stay with my girlfriend. Give me some advice.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hi, thanks for contacting TEEN LINE. Wow, it sounds like you have a lot that you're dealing with right now. It must be tough to love someone so much and to have your parents trying to prevent you from seeing her. It sounds like you guys have a very responsible relationship, and I wonder if sitting down with your guys' parents together would help your situation. It may be helpful to try and explain to them the way you guys feel about each other, and the precautions you guys are taking in order to prevent pregnancy. Do you have any siblings that you can talk to about your situation? Talking to someone who knows you're parents may provide you with a beneficial way to confront them about the way you're feeling. I really hope that everything works out for you, and if you ever want to talk further, please dont hesitate to call TEEN LINE (310)-855-4673 from 6PM-10PM PST.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I have very strong sexual urges and don't know how to handle them. Is it right for me to have sex now?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, Thanks for contacting TEEN LINE. It sounds like you are curious but also confused about these sexual urges.That is really common for teens to go through. Is their anyone around you that you could talk to like a sibling or close friend who might relate? It is important that whatever you decide to do you feel comfortable and ready. Call us at TEEN LINE to talk more about whats going on. We are open from 6pm-10pm everyday. Our number is 310-855-4673.

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