TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I am having a lot of problems at home. I dont know what to do anymore. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating for 8 months now. We love each other very much however noone seems to believe it. Noone, being my parents. We do have a sexual relationship which is what this is all about. My father caught me and my girlfriend doing the deed in my room. My dad had me when he was 17 so he is always thinking i will automatically have a kid if i have sex. We are very safe about it. We dont do it often and when we do we always use protection. Now since my parents know that our relationship is to a sexual level they are trying to split us up. However, they arent making us split up. They just will not let me see her outside of school. She is a senior and i am a junior therefore i never get to see her at school either. We truely love each other with all of our hearts. My family agrees that the way my parents are acting is ridiculous. My step grandfather has even offered me a room at his house. I have seriously been considering going and living with him. But i just do not know what to do. which is why i guess i turned to this website, because its a last resort. please help me stay with my girlfriend. Give me some advice.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hi, thanks for contacting TEEN LINE. Wow, it sounds like you have a lot that you're dealing with right now. It must be tough to love someone so much and to have your parents trying to prevent you from seeing her. It sounds like you guys have a very responsible relationship, and I wonder if sitting down with your guys' parents together would help your situation. It may be helpful to try and explain to them the way you guys feel about each other, and the precautions you guys are taking in order to prevent pregnancy. Do you have any siblings that you can talk to about your situation? Talking to someone who knows you're parents may provide you with a beneficial way to confront them about the way you're feeling. I really hope that everything works out for you, and if you ever want to talk further, please dont hesitate to call TEEN LINE (310)-855-4673 from 6PM-10PM PST.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I have very strong sexual urges and don't know how to handle them. Is it right for me to have sex now?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, Thanks for contacting TEEN LINE. It sounds like you are curious but also confused about these sexual urges.That is really common for teens to go through. Is their anyone around you that you could talk to like a sibling or close friend who might relate? It is important that whatever you decide to do you feel comfortable and ready. Call us at TEEN LINE to talk more about whats going on. We are open from 6pm-10pm everyday. Our number is 310-855-4673.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Hi. I'm worried I might have an std but I can't tell my parents because they are very conservative and have no idea I have had sex. I need to get to a gynecologist some how that is cheap or free (because my parents keep track of my money).

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey thanks for emailing TEEN LINE. The possibility of having an STD must be really scary to be dealing with and it must be hard not to be able to talk to your parents about what you're going through. I can give you a phone number that will be a lot of help with finding a gynecologist that is free. It is called Planned Parenthood and the number is (800) 230-7526 and the website is: www.plannedparenthood.org. They will be able to answer any questions you have about sex or STDs and they can get you help in finding what you need. Also, I would encourage you to call or chat with us here at TEEN LINE if you want to talk about this further or if you have anything else you would like to talk about. Our number is (310) 855-4673 and we are open from 6 to 10pm PST..

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
i have been having sex underage and i love it! i know its illegal but i want people's view on it. what do you think about it?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for emailing us here at TEEN LINE! There is no one answer, exactly. Many teen have different opinions, and not all of them may be ready for sex. From what you said, I wonder if by asking us, you are having doubts about how much you love it? Sometimes, if you ask others' opinions, it could mean there's a part of you that is questioning it. Maybe there is something aside from the illegality of sex that you may be pondering. If you have any other questions, perhaps regarding safe sex methods and underage sex, this is the number for Planned Parenthood 800-230-7526. As you are engaging in underage sex, I just want to make sure you are knowledgeable about safe and healthy sexual practices. Finally, please feel free to call us here at TEEN LINE at 310-855-4673 from 6 to 10 pm PST every night!.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
There is a boy that I know and he asked if he can have sex with me and I > said no. Is that good or bad? Please help?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, I'm so glad you contacted TEEN LINE. It sounds like you're feeling quite confused right now; which I think is totally normal when it comes to sex. I'm really proud of you for setting a boundary for yourself with this boy, even if right now you're you're feeling unsure. I can imagine that making this decision must have been very difficult, and maybe a little scary...but you should never feel like you have to have sex if you aren't ready or feeling uncomfortable. If you want to call TEEN LINE to talk more, our number is 310 855 4673, 6 to 10 P.M. PST.

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