Abuse & Violence
so i recently found out my ex is having sex
TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
so i recently found out my ex is having sex with a ton of other girls. that upset me but what upset me the most is that he was trying to have sex with a girl who just turned 15 and has known for 2 weeks. he is 17. so i got my courage up to write him a letter telling him how i feel and how im concerned. well he read the letter and told me to never speak to him again and that i should just stay out of his life. i thought ok well thats all he is going to do. but then i logged on to my friends facebook for him and i saw his status's saying i hate sabrina, any one wanna give someone some shit. they deserve it trust me. i read the comments that were posted to them and they were his friend threatening to hurt me and hit me with a baseball bat and he would say yeah i want to punch her face in. well now im scared to go to school tomorrow. i go to a school with 9 kids and there is NO way i can avoid him. and after reading what he said im actually really scared now. i cant skip school because that would make me look like a loser who cant deal with her own problems but at the same time i dont want to go because im scared someone is going to hurt me. what should i do?
TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hi thanks for contacting TEEN LINE, it seems like a really scary situation. It was really brave of you to write him a letter about how you feel. you mentioned that he told you to not talk to him and you saw him threatening you and his friends on facebook. In this situation, it is totally normal to feel anxious and extremely worried to go back to school. I would really encourage you to notify the school and your parents and the police if you seriously feel threatened. As a protection of your safety and if you really feel that you are in danger, your safety is the priority. Also, I really encourage you to call TEEN LINE, the number is (310) 855-4673 from 6 to 10. We would be glad to hear from you.
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