TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
im 13 and i watc porn and masturbate infront of it is that bad???

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey there. Thank you for emailing us here at TEEN LINE. It sounds like you have a lot of questions. It is normal to be curious about sexual activity and wanting to explore these feelings. How about talking to someone you trust like an adult or school counselo? It is confusing to have all of these feelings and not know anything about them. So it helps to talk to someone who can help you out. What other things do you like to do that could be helpful to you, any kind of sport or hobby? If you give us a call at (310) 855-4673, we are open from 6-10 PM PST every night, we could talk more about this.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I don't really know If I'm gay or bi with a stronger attraction with the same gender, but I'm not out to anyone except for my older sister who sometimes uses it as an insult when she's mad though she says she's sorry after wards and that she didn't mean it. my mom i guess would be fine with it, but my dad I'm not sure and the thought of my parents finding out scares me a lot, and I really like this girl who is a close friend of mine and she is bi, but I don't have confidence in myself at all so, I really don't know what to do about anything thank you in advance for helping

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey there. Thanks so much for emailing us here at TEEN LINE. It sounds like you are confused and also a little scared about what would happen if your parents found out about your sexuality. It's totally normal to feel that way. How about talking to your older sister or a friend about how you really like your friend? Or, what about a school counselor? If you like to write could you try journaling about your feelings or writing poetry? I'm going to give you a referral to the Trevor Line which is a helpline for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or questioning teens. Their number is (800)850-8078 or you can visit their website at www.thetrevorhelpline.org. You could also give us a call so we could talk more about this, we would love to hear from you. Our number is (800) 852-8336 and we are open from 6-10 PM PST every night.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
i have a bf and we both wanna have sex...the only problem is the consequences...what should we do...we've been dating for 4 years now..and nothing has torn us apart..and we think/know we are ready..what should WE do.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hi, It sounds like your really confused about what to do and that you know that there are consequences to sex but they can be avoided by using proper protection. There's a good clinic called Planned Parenthood that specializes in sex education. You can go to plannedparenthood.org or call 800-230-7526. Have you thought about talking to a friend or a trusted adult about this situation? I'm glad you have an open relationship with your boyfriend and you guys should always talk about things. Ultimately, the decision is up to you but it's really important to make a decision you're comfortable with. Please call us to talk about the situation more, we're open every day from 6-10 PM PST at 1-310-855-4673 or you can chat with us. I hope that everything works out for you

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I wanna know if its ever ok to have unprotected sex. I'm young and gay and have been in a committed relationship for three months. We are both tested twice and HIV negitive. No Herpes, Gonon, Ticks etc.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Thanks for contacting TEEN LINE. Unprotected sex comes with risks, even when it is with a partner you know very well. If your partner were ever to go outside of the relationship, it could expose you to STD's and/or HIV. In short, it is always good to be safe and practice protected sex. If you want some more information about this, you can contact Planned Parenthood at their hot line (800)230-7526 or look on their website at www.plannedparenthood.org. You can also always call us at TEEN LINE if you feel like talking. We are here from 6 to 10 PST every night at (310)855-4673 or you can chat with us on our website.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
IS MASTERBATHING GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, It seems you are concerned about masturbating. I'm not in any position to give you any medical advice, but you can try talking to a doctor or a medical professional for any information about this. I'd also encourage to call Planned Parenthood (800)-576-5544 if you have any further questions about this or you can reach them at their website at www.plannedparenthood.org.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I have been on out of school for a month on track out. And since then I have been constantly eating. I am getting scared because i think my legs are getting huge and bigger!My parents say i am skinny but I think otherwise. I cut soda out of my diet for 2 months now. I dont know what to do! i am not going to starve myself but maby go hump to many sizes. I dont want to end up like my ex- friend who is 168 pounds. What should I do?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey! Thanks so much for emailing TEEN LINE. It sounds like you are pretty concerned about gaining weight. A lot of teens feel self-conscious but the way that they handle that feeling is what is important. There are healthy ways to feel better about yourself like exercising and eating healthier. Im really glad to hear that you aren't planning on starving yourself because that is a really unhealthy and also dangerous way to handle your feelings. Is there anyone you feel comfortable talking to about this? Maybe a family member, close friend, or even a school counselor? You can also always call us here at TEEN LINE. We are here from 6 to 10 PST every night to talk at (310)855-4673.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. Everytime he says something to me that hurts me I cry. I tend to cry quite often. He complains because I cry almost everytime I'm with him. Why do you think that is?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey! Thanks so much for emailing us! It sounds like you are really confused about why you are crying so often. Is there anything specific that your boyfriend is saying to you that hurts? If he is complaining to you every time this happens, maybe you could talk to him about it? Have you thought about having that kind of conversation with him? Feeling emotional and hurt isn't anything to be ashamed of. Is there anyone else you feel comfortable talking to about this? Maybe a family member or a friend? You can also always call us here at TEEN LINE if you feel like talking. We are here from 6 to 10 PST every night at (310)855-4673. I really hope you call; or you can also chat with us on our website.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Yeah, hey, my name is D____ and i've never really done anythting like this, like talking to teenline, but uh i need some unbiased advise. So, my friend S____ has this girl that he really likes. He might love her. They're not dating and they have not dated. She gave him head like once n the past. However, he told all his guy friends, not including me, that hooking up with her is ok, but sex is out of the question. I heard this from some other guy. So, i thought i was close enough to respect this request. Anyway, one night after a party, in which she threw herself at me, i had her over and we had sex. I told my best friend n_____ what did and he strongly believed that it was the wrong thing to do. I agreed. So, i spoke to her and ended it. However, one night she was a little drunk and was high, and we decided to continue our little affair. I decided not to tell N___. So we had sex again and N____ found out and told S______. Now, i understand that what i did was immoral or wrong, but N____ betrayed me and ratted me out. Isn't that wrong. We were best friends. Ad he's just going to end it? Well, i'm not going to see this girl again, obviously. S____ is upset, we havent really discussed it in detail. I just think that n____ completely crossed the line. A little history of N_____, he's been my best friend since 9th grade and he's always been an asshole to me. We're competative when it comes to girls, which i think is one of the reasons why he ratted me out. Anyway, just needed to vent. My question is what should i do? Should i mend? Not worry about it? Am i a bad person? I feel as if i'm bottling my emotions up and im getting ready to burst. Thanks, maybe this isnt such a big deal? I don't know...

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey! Thank you so much for coming to TEEN LINE! It sounds like you are feeling really overwhelmed right now. The fact that you seem to have been betrayed by your best friend must be really difficult, and at the same time you feel as though you betrayed your other friend as well! Everybody makes mistakes and you appear to be feeling pretty guilty for your actions with this girl. Is there any way that you feel you could sensibly approach this situation and try to repair your broken relationships? They must be feeling as confused and upset as you are right now. If you feel comfortable, being straight forward can be really helpful, even though it can be hard to do sometimes. If you aren't ready to talk to your friends yet, could you talk to a trusted adult? They may be able to give you a different perspective on the problem and relieve your bottled emotions. Also, I really hope you call our hotline! I know you said you never really seek help in this way but i promise you we get calls from teens just like you all the time! We are open everyday from 6-10pm PST and our number is 1-800-852-8336.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
me and my 16 year old boyfriend want to get pregnet because we want to stay together but i am going to have to move haome in 3 months to my moms and i dont want to go back to her house because she beats me and the pregnatsy is what should keep from going home. but thats not the only resion. i have been pergnet 2 and lost my kids both times do to gang violence and i want to have a kid. i am already worki9ng two jobs and takeing parenting class's. what esl should i do?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey! Thanks for contacting TEEN LINE. It sounds like you are going through a lot right now with your situation. I am curious if you have had time to think about all the consequences that you might face as a teenage mom? It might be helpful for you to call Planned Parenthood 800 576 5544. They can help you and your boyfriend by providing more information about the life-time commitment of having a child. Also, have you ever though about talking to an adult that you trust to talk about some of your issues, such as problems with your mom? I can imagine how overwhelmed you must be feeling. I am worried about whether or not you are safe. I can give you the number for National Run Away Switchboard, in case you need a place to stay. Here is there number: 800 621 4000, it is open 24/7. I can see how hard this all must be for you. I want to encourage you to feel free to call TEEN LINE from 6-10PST at 310. 855. 4673.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I need cutting alternatives to release stress so i won't....

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey! Thank you so much for reaching out to TEEN LINE for some safe alternatives to cutting! Some options that teens we have talked to found helpful were applying ice or coloring with a red pen on the spot where you usually cut. Another idea that can be really helpful is to try to distract yourself with hobbies such as writing or listening to your favorite music when you feel the urge to cut, usually the temptation will pass. Exercise is a great stress reliever and has been found to really help people who self injure fight the urge to cut. I'm also going to give you a referral to the Safe Alternatives Hotline, which is a line that deals specifically with self injury; the number is 800-366-8288. Also I really encourage you to call our hotline. We are open everyday from 6-10pm PST and our number is 310-855-4673. We would be happy to discuss with you the stressful feelings that make you want to cut.

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