TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
ive been really depressed latly and i have thought about cutting. i havent cut myself but i think i might. i dont know how to deal with my depression. HELP!!

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for emailing us here at TEEN LINE. It seems like you have been going through a very difficult time, and need help dealing with your emotions. Perhaps you could keep a journal or talk to a friend or trusted adult about your depression. Cutting may seem like an easy way to release your sadness, but there are many other alternatives that will not harm you and may be more beneficial. If you have any hobbies such as music, writing, sports, drawing, and such, it might be helpful if you focus on them to take your mind off your situation. You can also visit www.self-injury.net and it will provide you with some information. If you would like to talk to us about what's been going on in your life you can always call TEEN LINE at (310) 855-4673, and we would be glad to listen. We're open 6-10pm pst.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Last July I had my boyfriend now ex Boyfriend come over to my house when I was alone and he wanted to have sex but I said no and he was o strong held me down and Stuck his penis in my ass and I screamed for him to stop is that rape? He also did the same to my mouth is that rape?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey thanks for e-mailing TEEN LINE. Wow it sounds like you've been through a lot. I can only imagine how awful that must have been for you. No one should be forced into doing sexual acts. By definition, rape is forced, unwanted sexual intercourse. I'm wondering if you've talked to anyone about this...maybe a trusted friend, adult, family member, or school counselor? If you'd be comfortable with it, I encourage you to call the 24hr Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network at (800) 656-4673 so you can talk about what you've been through or have any other questions. As well, please feel free to call us here at TEEN LINE. We're open every night from 6pm-10pm PST and the number is (800) 852-8336.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Last July I had my boyfriend now ex Boyfriend come over to my house when I was alone and he wanted to have sex but I said no and he was o strong held me down and Stuck his penis in my ass and I screamed for him to stop is that rape? He also did the same to my mouth is that rape? Can we share this problem or question with other teens on the Teen Line website?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey thanks for e-mailing TEEN LINE. Wow it sounds like you've been through a lot. I can only imagine how awful that must have been for you. No one should be forced into doing sexual acts. By definition, rape is forced, unwanted sexual intercourse. I'm wondering if you've talked to anyone about this...maybe a trusted friend, adult, family member, or school counselor? If you'd be comfortable with it, I encourage you to call the 24hr Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network at (800) 656-4673 so you can talk about what you've been through or have any other questions. As well, please feel free to call us here at TEEN LINE. We're open every night from 6pm-10pm PST and the number is (800) 852-8336.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I get bullied in the school to the extent where i want to just give up on life , and just throw it all away. Theres no solution . There so cruel & mean. Everyone turned against me. Everyone that said they had my back dont now. The problem escalated in just 1 short week & its really getting to me. They make me cry so much i try not to think about it but it just comes up. I'm really sad & helpless nothing would stop them

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hi,
Thank you for contacting TEEN LINE. It sounds like you're feeling really scared and alone. Bullying is a terrible form of treatment, and no one deserves to be at the receiving end of it. It must be really unsettling to have your friends turn against you, and I'm worried about your feelings of helplessness. Have you thought about talking to a parent or a sibling about your feelings? They could be supportive of your situation. Also, have you considered talking to a school counselor about how you've been feeling lately? They could also offer you free space to vent your feelings as well as a great source of support. Bullying in any capacity, physical or verbal, is never okay, so your school counselor also could report the poor behavior of your classmates to the school administration. Remember, if you'd like to talk to us, you can also contact teens here at TEEN LINE at 1 (310) 855 4673 from 6 to 10 PM PST.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
ok so i'm bisexual and i have been for a while now my mom saw it in my myspace and told me i wasn't but i am.instead i told her that i wasn't cuz i knew that she whould hate me her and my sisters hate bi or gays so now how do i tell them please help me???!!!!?!?!?!?!?!?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey thanks so much for contacting TEEN LINE. Wow, you sound so worried that your mom might get upset with how you really feel. I wonder whether or not you have any close friends or family members you can talk to. Or what about a school counselor? They might help you sort out your feelings and state of mind. There is a hotline called Trevor Line and they specialize in issues concerning one's sexuality and may be able to help you figure out how to tell your family. Their number is 800-850-8078. If you have any other questions or you just want to talk, please feel free to call us at 310-855-5673, or chat with us online. We're open 6-10pm pst.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
my mother keeps taking away the things that i need to lower my stress just because i forgot to turn a paper at school. without a stress releiver i become violent inna way, i am trying to find another stress reliever through self mutalation. half the time i wish i was dead so that way i wouldn't have to put up with all of this stress and self punishment. please help me find a way thought this so i don't do anything to get me into trouble

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hi, it seems like you are very stressed and angry right now. It is competely normal for teenagers to be stressed out and to have difficulties with their parents. Have you tried talking to your mom or maybe a trusted friend/relative. It can be very hard to be a teenager and your situation sounds very tough. I would like to refer to www.self-injury.net. www.selfinjury.net will give you more information, chats, and forums all dedicated to preventing cutting and other self injuries. Also, in your email you mentioned having suicidal thoughts, when you have those feelings it may help to call the suicide prevention hotline. Their number is 877-727-4747 and they are there to listen and help. In addition, I encourage you to call us at TEEN LINE, our number is (310) 855-4673 and our hours are 6-10 pm PST. We would love to help!

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
im terrified that i have an std. ive had sex with three guys this year unprotected. i have sex alot because im very insecure and a sexual being. i need advice. my mom knows ive had sex but she doesnt know how often. me and my moms relationship in hanging by a strand and if i asked her to take me to get tested it would be a scary and stressful experiance. if i do get tested confedentionaly(i already know how to) and i come out positive i will HA

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, Thank you so much for contacting TEEN LINE! It sounds like you are feeling really conflicted and anxious with the possibility of having an STD. Maybe talking to a school counselor, teacher, or trusted adult about your situation could help you figure out your options. It might also help to talk about other issues going on in your life that you mentioned, like the difficulties with your mom and your feelings of insecurity. There is an organization called Planned Parenthood at (800) 576-5544. There you can be confidentially tested for STDs and if you do come out positive they can counsel you on your options. They can also talk to you about different birth control. We are also here at TEEN LINE from 6:00pm-10:00pm every night at 310-855-4673 if you ever want to talk. .

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I went and got high with a few friends. They were friends with a 23 year old, D, who was there too, and we had met before. We were acquaintances, almost friends. They all passed out except for D and I, but I was sleepy, so curled up next to him and fell asleep on his chest. I wasn't completely asleep when I felt his hand snake under my shirt, reaching into my pants, and the other started fondling my chest. I dunno what to do.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey,
Thanks for emailing us here at TEEN LINE. You must be feeling confused, scared and overwhelmed right now. I'm really glad you had the courage to tell me about what you went through. It sounds what he did was inappropriate and illegal and you have the right to protect yourself. I wonder if you have told anyone about this, like a friend, a trusted adult, a school counselor or the police? I want to give you the phone number to an organization called RAINN where they can help you. They specialize in talking with girls who have also been violated in similar ways and they can help you to discuss your feelings about this experience and the options you have. Their phone number is (800) 656 4673 and you can call them or go into one of their clinics to talk to someone there. You can also feel free to call us here at TEEN LINE if you want to talk about this or anything else that's bothering you. Our number is (310) 855 4673 and we are open from 6 to 10pm PST. Please know that there are options and you are not alone in this.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
My parents have been fighting for a month or two now. It just keeps getting worse. The fights are always started by my dad and his bad mood. It seems as though every little thing sets him off. In one fight my dad told my mom that things will never be the same between them. I am scared that my parents will get a divorce. I talk to my dad and ask him to tell my why gets so angered over small things, but he is one of those people who never really speaks their mind. I tell my parents i am sad and they see me cry, but don't talk to me about their fights. I dont know if something about work is making my dad angry, but I would like to know what to do. Please help. Thanks

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey,
It sounds like you're feeling really upset and helpless since you don't know what's making your dad angry. You also mentioned that you've talked with your parents about their fighting and it looks like you haven't gotten the reply or reaction you wanted. Have you tried talking to your parents about how scared you feel about a possibility of their divorce? If you feel uncomfortable doing so, would you be willing to discuss your feelings regarding your parents' fights with a trusted teacher, relative, friend or school counselor? Sometimes counseling can help you get another perspective and not keep everything inside.
You can always call us here at TEEN LINE if you want to talk to a teen. We're happy to listen. Our number is (800) 852-8336 and we're open everyday from 6-10 PM PST.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
im fourteen im in foster care i cant talk or see my family. my twin is locked up because of me, ive got foster parents and i lie and steal from them... i want to change i always tell my elf im going to but i wont let myself!!!! i cant sleep i dont want to eat i hate smiling but i do to hide my pain... i misss my twin!!!! i misss my mom and my family!!! waht can i dooooo?!?!?!?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey,
Thank you for contacting TEEN LINE. It sounds like you're feeling really overwhelmed. Your situation must be stressful, and I wonder if you're difficulty sleeping and eating stems from feeling lonely. It seems like you're having problems with your foster parents, and I wonder if there is anyone you could talk to about how you've been feeling. Have you thought about sharing your feelings with someone like a a school counselor, a therapist, or a trusted adult? Talking to one about your pain could give you free space to not only vent your feelings but also to receive tangible support. You can always feel free to contact us at TEEN LINE at 1 (310) 855 4673 from 6 to 10 PM PST if you'd like more support.

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