TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I don't know if I'm bi sexual or a lesbian. I like to kiss girls but I also like to kiss guys. I find them both attractive. I'm really confused and I don't know what to do. Apart of me is kinda scared to be a lesbian but I don't want to lie to myself either. There are qualities I like in guys that girls don't have but there also qualities I like in girls that guys don't have.I just need some advice. I want to know, what should do?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Thank you for opening up to us at TEEN LINE. It sounds like you're feeling confused, and it's totally valid for you to be feeling afraid right now. It's okay for you to be exploring your feelings, and I am glad to hear that you want to be true to yourself. It sounds like you may be feeling lonely right now, and I just want to let you know that we're here for you. If you're feeling lost, maybe talking to a friend or a trusted adult about how you're feeling would help. Adolescence is an extremely difficult part of life, and reaching out to friends or family can be a really helpful tool throughout your life. There's also this really cool hotline, the Trevor Line 866-488-7386, that is for youth questioning their sexuality. You can also chat with us online or call us at (310)855-4673. We're here from 6-10PM (PST). We're here to listen.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Hi, My name is, well I aint gonna say, but I'm gay and I'm really in a pickle. I have a bro and sis (both very homophobic) and my dad is too. My mum is very loving though. Anyway, I keep looking at gay porn sites and keeping wanting to meet someone really badly! I also dislike wanking. However, I don't know where to find a good guy. In other words, I don't know where to find a boyfriend, and older one. I really want one but i just dont know where to find one. Please help!

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for emailing us here at TEEN LINE. It sounds like you really want a boyfriend and you want acceptance from your family. Talking to your family could really help them understand how you are feeling. Also, talking to a friend, or a trusted adult (like a school counselor) could help you figure out what's going on right now. School is always a great place to meet and get to know people. Brighton and Hove is a helpline for LGBT that you could contact for information. Their website is http://www.switchboard.org.uk/home and their number is 01273 204050. If you ever feel like you need to talk to someone, TEEN LINE is open every night from 6pm to 10pm PST; and our number is (310) 855-4673.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
i am bi and i dont know what to do i dont whant to be like this but i dont know what to do can u help me?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks so much for reaching out to TEEN LINE. It sounds like you're feeling confused about how to deal with your sexual orientation, and also sounds like you're not sure about how you truly feel. I want you to know that it's totally normal to be having conflicting thoughts and emotions about your sexual orientation; tons of teens go through it and very often feel unsure or lost. Have you considered talking to someone about all the thoughts you're having, such as a close friend or trusted adult/school counselor? A lot of times simply talking about something can be a great way to feel relieved and also to even realize/figure out your emotions or what you want to do. I also would like to refer you to a great resource called the Trevor Line. It's a hotline open 24 hours that's really great for discussing any concerns you're having with sexual orientation. The number is 800-850-8078, and I really encourage you to call them if you feel comfortable doing so. You're also welcome to call us here at TEEN LINE, we're open 6pm to 10pm PST every night and our number is 310-855-4673.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
i am confused i always liked boy but as i got older i found an intest in girls i told two people and only one understands me but we lost contact but all i want to do is stop it because it is getting worse like a zit that will not go away.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey thanks for e-mailing TEEN LINE. It must be so confusing to feel like you're interested in girls when you're used to liking boys. Being a teenager is such a frustrating and confusing time so it's definitely important to have someone to talk to about what's going on in your life. I'm wondering if you've considered telling anyone else about this? Maybe a trusted adult, friend, family member, or even a school counselor? Also, if you'd feel comfortable with it, you could call the Trevor Line at (800)-850-8078. They are really experienced with teens who may be questioning their sexuality and may be able to offer you some support. Feel free to call or chat wtih TEEN LINE as well. We're open every night from 6pm-10pm PST and the number is (310)-855-4673.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I really want to be a girl like I've Thought it threw and talked to my friends about it and then thought about it more and i know its what i want to do its just idk how to one tell my family or two how to start or who i should talk to.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for contacting us here at TEEN LINE. It sounds like you know what you want to do, but are nervous about telling your family and how to start the process. I am going to give you a referral that can probably help you further and better but we would also be happy to talk to you more about your feelings at (800) 852 8336 6-10 PM PST. The resource is the Trevor Line at 866-488-7386. It is a free 24/7 hot line for teens that can provide you with someone to talk to and even resources. You can also look here: www.thetrevorhelpline.org where you can find more information. Good luck.

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