TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
My mom and I got into a fight she threw objects at me, such as a folded table perfume bottles. I went to the cops, they took a report down then they called ACS. I wanted to go to my step family's house but i couldn't because i still had a das in my life whic wasn't around. So my dad told me in, but not really he told the ACS worker he had a place for me which he did he had me stay with my grandma while she already had someone living there already, Now my problem is Im trying to call my ACS worker but she hasn't picked up the phone I had also left her emails, but still she hasn't contracted me back. My grandma is kicking me out because my dad said he will watch me and he hasn't he has been back and forth and going on vaction..she feels like she doesn't have to babysit anyone but herself. I have no place to and IM only 16. What should i do please help me?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey thanks for contacting us. It sounds like your going thorugh a very confusing time. You mentioned how your grandma is kicking you out and how your dad is never really around. I wonder if you have any other family members that you could stay with like your step family? I can imagine how difficult this situation must be for you. Do you have a trusted friend or any other adult that you could talk to? You also mentioned how your ACS worker isn't responding to you. You could try calling the actual ACS number and let them know whats been going on. Myabe they will give you a new ACS worker. If you need someone to talk to call us or chat with us here at TEEN LINE. Our number is 310-855-4673 and we are open from 6-10 PM pst. Hope to hear from you!

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Hi i live in Illinois and i have been beat by my father and not treated well by the rest of my family. I want to leave my house and stay with my friend and her family and they would love to have me at their house. Is it legal for me to leave my parents home at the age of 17 without their permission and is there legal action they can take to bring me back even after i am 18?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Thanks for e-mailing TEEN LINE. That is awful that your father abuses you. It sounds like your going through a really tough time. It is good that you have this friends house where you can stay, and it's a good idea if your father is about to hurt you for you to go to this safe house. What your father is doing to you is wrong. To take action, you can call the Department of Child and Family Services at 800-422-4453. They can come help you find a safer place to live. You can also call us(or chat) any night from 6 to 10 Pacific Standard Time at 1-310-855-4673 to talk to about your feelings and situation or even help you file a report. Once you turn 18, you are a legal adult, and your family cannot take any legal action to force you back into their house.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
i am in a really violent relationship my boyfriend gets really mad and tents to beat me. he always threatens me when i try leave like telling me that he will either kill me or himself also he is very controlling etc so i was wondering what can i do because apart from all this he is a great person but i am extremely scared of his bad side please give me some advice i live in new zealand in palmerston north.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, you're in a really tough and scary situation. I'm so sorry that you have to deal with your boyfriend when he gets on his bad side. It's not fair to you to have to deal with him if he's taking his anger or aggression out on you. Have you talked to anyone about what's going on? If you're being hurt and put in danger it may be to your benefit to talk to either a friend or family member about what's going on. Also, since your boyfriend is threatening to kill you or himself, you may want to consider talking to the police, as they can help ensure your safety. I'm worried for your safety. You mentioned that he's a great guy, but if he's putting you through so much emotional and physical pain, do you still think he's really that great? I'm really proud of you that you're trying to leave and seperate yourself from him. If you're scared or worried, I really would recommend you talk to your parents, a friend, or even the police. Also, you can always call or chat with us online at TEEN LINE, as we'd love to talk to you and help you personally. We're open everyday from 6-10 pm PST at 310-855-4673.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Help me I have this boyfriend named R____ P______ and he is 26 years old I want him to tell my mom that I can call him when I want I have an older Brother Y_____ who doesn't like my mom being strict and yelling at me about my boyfriend R_____ P______ I really love R____ P______ can he tell my mom that

TEEN LINE WROTE:
I am really glad you contacted TEEN LINE. It sounds as if you are struggling in your relationship with your mom. Have you tried talking to your mom about how you feel she is being too strict? Maybe letting her know how you feel will help her understand and she will loosen up on you. You are over 18 and you are becoming an adult. Do you know why she thinks you may not be able to make these kind of decisions for yourself? If you have any more questions or if you just want to talk feel free to call us here at TEEN LINE. We are open everyday from 6-10 pm Pacific Daylight Time. Our number is (310) 855-4673.

Thanks,

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
okay i was wondering can me or my boyfriend get in trouble if i run away to get away from abuse? My step dad has been abusing me and i need to know if i move out will i really get sent to juvie and will my boyfriend be put in jail from trying to escape abuse?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for emailing TEEN LINE. It sounds like you have a lot going on. What kind of abuse was going on at your house? It is never okay for a parent or step parent to abuse a child. Have you told any adult about the abuse? I encourage you to talk to a school counselor or adult you trust and tell them what is happening. You could also call the National Child Abuse Hotline: 800-422-4453 and they should be able to help you. If you are in danger and need to runaway, here is a number for the National Runaway Switchboard: 800-621-4000. Please call us TEEN LINE too at 310-855-4673. We are open every night from 6pm-10pm PST.

a TEEN LINE teen