TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
When i was 16 it was the first time i was raped no one knows because i have a very big problem with dealing with my problems and act like they dont exist but now at 18 i was walkin out of a party and was raped and beat by 3 guys.. but many word got out because of my best friend and people talking bout it and accusing me of lieing and all that and i just cant handle it anymore i want to cry all the time.. the first time after i was raped i became addicted to drugs and then stopped all tht and just started handling my problems with alchol. but its not helping no more and i want to handle my problems the rite way

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, Wow. It sounds like you are going through some really rough things right now. This must be so painful for you. I'm happy to hear that you want to handle your problems the right way instead of depending on drugs and alcohol like you used to. It seems like you are very sad and lonely. I wonder if you've told any dependable adults about what has happened and how you are feeling. You could try talking to your mom, dad, an older sibling or your school counselor. If you don't feel comfortable talking to any of those people, I have some great referrals for you to try. There is the Rape, Abuse, and Incest Network (RAINN). Their number is 1800 656 4673 and they are open 24 hours a day. Also, you can try calling Project Sister (909 626 4357). They are open Mondays-Friday from 9am-5pm. Both of these hotlines can be very helpful. Also, you are always welcome to call us here at TEEN LINE (310 855 4673). We're open from 6-10pm every night and we'd love to hear from you.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
o i know this girl who is cutting shes a really close friend.. she went away for awhile to a place to get help now she is back but she is still really angry and dosent like anyone what should i do?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for contacting TEEN LINE. It sounds like you're friend has gone through some intense times in her past. You are a great friend to try and figure out how to help her. As her friend, sometimes all you can do is to just be there for her. Since you close with her, maybe talking to her will help you understand where she's coming from. Is there a person that both you and your friend know that you can talk to about this? Maybe getting some advice from someone that knows the both of you can help you as well. If you ever want to talk or need someone to talk to, you can always call us at TEEN LINE at 310-855-4673. We're open from 6-10pm pst.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
well i dont like where i am living with my parents i have tried tlking and working it out but they gett deeper more viloent i want to move in with my grandomther do i have to have my moms consult??

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for emailing us at TEEN LINE. It sounds like you are feeling very trapped and hopeless right now. It can be so hard to deal with living in a place you don't like and feel like you can't do anything about it. I wonder if you have talked about this with your grandmother. It seems like talking with your parents may not be helping, but sometimes finding an adult who you can confide in can help you make the best decision for you. You say that it gets really violent with your parents the more you try and talk about it with them. I am concerned for you. If something dangerous is going on, and you fear for your safety, I really encourage you to call the National Child Abuse Hotline at 800-422-4453. I also want to encourage you to call us here at TEEN LINE. Our number is 310-855-4673 and we are open from 6-10 pm PST.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I was just wondering if it's possible for a child to be sexually abused by another child? When i was nine my male cousin who is a year younger than me started doing inappropriate things to me... I just laid there... i think i may have pushed his hands away once or twice.... anyways, this happened off and on until i was 14... I never participated... i always just felt too intimidated to make it stop... idk... maybe i wanted it or something... i just feel really guilty about it all. Is it abuse or just kids being kids?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
hey, thanks for contacting TEEN LINE, i think it's really great that you are talking to someone about this. Yes, it is possible for a child to be sexually abused by another child. it sounds like you are feeling a sense of shame, which is normal to feel, and that this was something that was done to you and in no way your fault. i was wondering if would you feel comfortable talking to a therapist or a counselor about this? if you wanna talk to us you can call us at 310-855-4673 from 6 to 10pm PST. we really hope to hear from you.

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TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
im issue is that i just found out im pregnant and the father of my child dosen't want 2 be in the baby's life what should i do?? i really dont want 2 chase him, i would rather him not be in my child's life is he doesn't. what do you think i should do???

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey, thanks for contacting TEEN LINE. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, but I am glad that you are taking responsibility for your child. It sounds like you know what you would like to do. I'm wondering if you have someone to talk to, like a family member or a friend. If you have more questions about your pregnancy, I have a great referral for you. It is called Planned Parenthood and is a 24-hour line, the number is(800) 576-5544. If you want to talk more, you can always call us at 310-855-4673. We're open from 6-10pm pst.

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