TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I have been going out with guys most of my life and now I every time I stay at my friends house (who is a girl) I look at her when she is not looking and when we are lying down togther I feel like laying on her and or kissing her. We've kissed before but that was when we were drunk and we kissed most of the girls at the party. I don 't know what to do and I am afraid of telling her about my feelings. Also I like guys to and sometimes feel like having sex with my ex.

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Hey,
Thanks for contacting us here at TEEN LINE. Thank you so much for sharing your feelings with me. It seems like this must be a really confusing time for you but, its completely normal to have feelings for both girls, and guys. And sometimes it takes people a while to figure out what their preference is. Experimenting with one or the other doesn't define your sexual preference. With all of these mixed emotions your having, I know it can be really tough to confide those around you, especially your closest friends. But, if you feel like you can't, or that its not the right time, you may be able to confide in oth er people without feeling like your judged.

At school, you may have a club or a group called Gay-Straight Alliance where girls and guys talk about exactly what your going through in a non-judgmental environment.

Also, there are organizations like PFLAG (310 472-8952) or the Gay and Lesbian Youth Services (323 993-7450) that provide support for exactly what your going through.

If you want, you can also call us at the TEEN LINE hotline everyday from 6pm to 10 pm at (800) 852-8336.

Thanks so much,
TEEN LINE