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He told me to re-move all my clothes

AUTHOR: 15 Year Old, Female
11 December 2007

TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Well the other day i was walking home from school with my mat who is a boy and we had decided to play this strip tease game where if we got our question wrong we had to remove some of our clothes and i went first an got mine wrong and he told me to re-move all my clothes but i just removed my school blazer, tie and shoes, but then he told me to undo 4 buttons on my shirt so i did not feel comfortable but didn't want him to think i was a baby and then he told me to lift my bra up a bit on one side and i didn't want to but i did and he had a smile on his face as though he wanted to touch them but thankfully his phone rang and he had to go home but now i cant look at him at school and feel really uncomfortable and i dont know what to do?

TEEN LINE WROTE:
Thank you for contacting Teen Line. It sounds like you are in a confusing situation, but i want to aplaud you for having the courage to contact us. You should know that it is completly normal to feel uncomfortable in your situation, but you should not allow anyone put you in the posision to become unfomfortable. It sounds like you were fine with taking off your balzer, but after that point you became uneasy. At what point do you feel like you became uncomfortable? Why Do you think you allowed your friend to push your personal bounderies? (if you agree that he did) As for you friend, you might want to consider talking talking to him and letting him know that you feel uneasy taking off you clothes infront of him. You might want to explain to him exactly how you felt, and how his actions (asking you to undress) affected you comfort level, and at what point you became uncomfortable. I hope everything works out well for you. If you need to talk to anyone feel free to call from 6-10 PM PST, at (310)855-HOPE, OR (800) TLC-TEEN.

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