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Straight & having feelings for my friend (a girl)

TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I have been going out with guys most of my life and now I every time I stay at my friends house (who is a girl) I look at her when she is not looking and when we are lying down togther I feel like laying on her and or kissing her. We've kissed before but that was when we were drunk and we kissed most of the girls at the party. I don 't know what to do and I am afraid of telling her about my feelings. Also I like guys to and sometimes feel like having sex with my ex.

I have strong feelings for 2 girls, & i'm a girl

TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I am a 15 year old girl and I feel like i'm drowning in my own stress and just everything. I am mature for my age and that kind of makes things worse. Starting this year in high school (sophomore year) I have started to have very strong feelings for one of my coaches. And that coach just happens to also be a girl. I have played sports all of my life and at first just thought it was because i have such a strong connection to my coaches because i have looked up to them all of my life. But this doesn't seem to be the case. Since the first day we met i have really been almost obsessed with her. I have never had feelings for a woman before. She is 10 years older than me.. but we are so much alike. She has even told me we are alike. I see her almost everyday throughout school and i sometimes go talk to her but I don't want to start annoying her. I guess my biggest problem is just wondering if she is a lesbian. I talked to one of the other coaches to see if they thought that she was and they just said they had no clue but kind of suspect it. I just don't know what to do and i really like her. but if anything did happen we couldn't do anything because she works for the school and that is illegal. this is my main problem right now. i have another problem happening between me and this girl that actually is a lesbian that has come out and i think my friends are starting to speculate that about me too... and that is NOT good. please give me some advice... anything. i have no one to talk to about this.

I was almost obsessed with her

TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I've been searching for a place to finally talk about this and get it off my chest. Two years ago I began experiencing feelings towards another girl. These feelings were very strong and I was almost obsessed with her. I am extremely ashamed of this. I didnt choose to feel this way and I wish I didnt have to. None of my friends are going through this so I have no one to talk to. I also have cut myself many times. I havent really identified why I cut, but its usually either to relieve anger. Or when I feel like my world is falling apart. I'm just so upset about my feelings towards people of the same gender as me. Cutting relieves the pain. I feel really alone and I just want some help. =[

I consider myself bisexual but...

TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Ok so i've written to teen line a bunch of times and everytime its with an enhanced version of the past question or trouble i've had but i have finally decided to put them all together so i can get one straight forward answer. so here it goes. im 14(ill be 15 in a month or so) and i consider myself bi-sexual(although at times i make myself think im gay) im in 9th grade and ive sort of always had to deal with a vast majority of my classmates or just friends friends calling me gay or a fag but its never really bothered me just becuase i know my own friends love me for who i am(or arent , they dont know im bi but i dont think they would care) but um now that im in high school i didnt think that i would have the name calling problem as much just because i thought people would mature. im guessing its to early to tell.. anyways ive always been kind of um alone, and ive looked for ways to talk or get together with people having the same problem but uh just some things i guess you should know i wont tell anyone(adults at school , parents are against homosexuals) i wont talk to the counselors at school i wont join the straight gay aliance at school because then people and friends would find out i wont tell my parents and i wont tell my friends also i cant tell my parents i need a therapist or w.e because they would ask me why so i really dont know what to do for support i mean what ever it is my parents cant or my friends i mean in the the end i do plan on leading a normal life with a wife and children but just at this specific point of my life i need some support.

I like this girl (I am a girl too).

TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I like this girl (I am a girl too). I have never thought this way before and it is kind of scaring me. But I know I am liking her a lot and she likes me too. My parents don't approve of homosexual people at all. They say some pretty mean stuff about them. My parents think I am straight, so do my friends. Should I "come out" and tell them? Should I try to get together with this girl? I am so confused. One more problem. I am used to cut and I stopped for a month, now I find that I am cutting again (once) and I don't know what to do..? Any advice at all would help. Thank you.

Bisexual and depressed

TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
Hi, sorry if I'm wasting everyone's time but I feel Depressed alot and I feel like people hate me and I'm a bit cridical about my body, I think everyone will hate me if I come out as Bi, Any ideas?

Most of my life I've been attracted to guys.

TEEN QUESTION/PROBLEM:
I'm not sure where to begin. I'm 14 turning 15 and most of my life I've been attracted to guys. I had my first crush on a girl when I was in 3rd grade. I'm not sure if it was an actual crush or if it was just to make everyone think that I wasn't gay. This is really hard for me to sit here and let people that I don't even know read this. Recently, I tried to tell my best friend/cousin. We've been close since we were born. I texted it to her on my phone but she didn't believe me. She thought I was joking so, finally, I just told her that it was a joke and that someone dared me to do it. I just need someone to talk to; someone who can relate to what I'm going through. There's no way that I can tell my parents, family, or anyone at school. I'm just afraid of rejection I guess. Also, my parents have been going through alot (financially). They hae been very depressed and if they found out about me it would just break their hearts. I know that they love me but sometime I wonder if they would if I told them. Sometimes, out of the blue, I'll find myself on gay websites. I am so ashamed but I can't control it. At school, there are some people that have suspected that I am gay. I deny it everytime. All of my friends are girls. I really only have friends in school. I have no one to hang out with in my neighborhood so I thought I would try and join this website. If anyone wants to post anything for me to read, feel free. I'll be there for you if you'll be there for me.

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