i dont know if its abuse?

[ashlynbaby]

recently my mom started yelling at me for no reason and when she yells i learned to go to my room well i was getting ready for work and i went to the fridge to get somthing to eat and she pushed me into the wall with her fist in my face i try not to fight back but i pushed her off me and ran to my room and shut the door she was outside my door screaming that im a slut and how i spread my legs for every guy... which i dont! and i finally snapped after the hour of all the horrible things she did and sai to me i opened my door and she grabbed me so i started punching her to try and get free. she always is saying horrible things to me. i haven't talked to her since thursday and friday she fliped a table over when my dad was trying to talk to her and she took a bunch of pills... i just dont understand why she is doing this... please give me some advice...

[TL TEEN3]

Hi.
It sounds like you're going through a rough time. I first want to tell you, that this is not your fault in any way. Secondly, this is considered verbal AND physical abuse. Do you have some sort of support system you could talk to about this? I am so sorry you have to go through all of this. If anything worsens, please call in.
With love and hope,
Joey

[TryingToBeBetter]

i'm realllyyy sorry to hear that...sounds liek ur mother is going through a rough time and is taking it out on ur family. i know this sounds difficult, but try to sympathize with her. ask her how her day's going, etc. maybe she'll loosen up. maybe the truth will spill. anyways i'm really sorry to see how seh is taking it all out on u...tell a friend. wat u need the most now is ppl support! no one deserves to go through this alone

[soccarools]

if this continues and happens regularly, then yes, it's considered abuse. my mom and dad yell at my all the time and upset me and my mom has slapped me in the face and my dad has whacked my arm with the back of his hand really hard. and it freaking hurt. not gonna lie. but i didn't consider it abuse only because they've only done it a few times throughout my life. but if this is happening on a regular basis, you need to tell someone. nobody should be treating you that way.

[ashlynbaby]

thank you all so much for your support. my mom has decided to get surgery she has been nice now. i hope it stays this way...

[Please Help]

i dont have a mom or a dad to be able to say iknow what you mean inever have had somene to care for me that way but yet from my prospective i can say it abuse to me it seems ass if your mom has very low self esteem and she needs help with it as on of my teachers once told mhe its not up to up to show them that there makeing a mistake because in there head there doing whats right you need to let her addmite that she is doing wrong im sorry that you have to deal with this all the time i truly am .. to be honest all i can say is to try to avoid getting near her keep your kool i bett that may help we chill ..... and message me if you wanna talk..

[ashlynbaby]

thank you to everyone for your support. my mom has had the surgery she spent a few days in the hospital. she is home now she has been very happy and im helping her out as much as i can while trying to balance school and work. i have thought alot about it all and she does alot my family and they dont appreciate it. before her surgery not once has she ever talked bad about my dad and all the time my dad has something mean to say about my mom. even though she went through with the surgery and is in pain not taking the pain medicine im the one taking care of her and doing the laundry the grocery shopping. and ive decided to leave the cleaning to my brother and dad cuz i do everything else i even cook for them when i can... anjd its so unfair to me and my mom. and the holidays are coming and i had 7000 from a car accident and my dad took it and paid of his visa... that was my money and i was gonna use it to help them out and he took it. he doesnt even understand that it is stealing and that im hurt by it i even tried talking to him but its like talking to a brick wall. then my mom and i are wanting to go to family counseling and my moms friend needs both my moms and dads insurance and he keeps "forgetting" his... then says my mom doesnt want and it wont help. and i snapped and stood up for my mom. and told him that im going to fix myself and i wanna fix this family if no one wants to go and fix it then they can forget about me as their daughter cuz i will just be done... and he got very quiet.... but all in all things have gotten alot better