Gaydar???

[lianimal]

Yoooo. So my gay guy friends are always teasing me because I don't have gaydar... They all have it and I have no idea how to tell if a girl is gay. Any tips? Also, I am absolute rubbish at flirting with girls. I can flirt with guys no problem but I don't really know what to do when a girl I like is around. I always end up looking really lame.... So how exactly do I flirt with a girl without seeming like a total idiot? Thanks!

[Lost and in love212]

I don't really think there is a real way to tell weather a girl is lesbian or not. I mean for me I can cuz I am a girl and I am attracted to them and do have a "gaydar" but I don't think that there is a real way to tell. Now as far as the flirting I am a natural flirt. I flirt wit guys and naturally and I don't notice wen I do as I flirt wit girls and don't notice I do. Now its a little bit harder for me to flirt wit girls but I can. Web you flight wit a gilt you have to let it seem natural and let it come to you. Don't force it cuz then you'll see really corny and lame.