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Help please :'(

Postby polkadotgirl » Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:26 am

I got into a terrible fight with my parents last night and I swung my arms and i accidently hit my mom and they think it was on purpose! Then she went off on my and started calling me a f*cking b**** and stuff. . . and then this morning my dad started yelling at me and told me to never do that again("hit" my mom) and started getting really violent and told me if i ever even touch her again that he is going to slap the sh*t out of me and thrown my a** out on the street. . . im scared for my life
Iv always been verbally abused by them but never been scared that they would hurt me physicly. . . what should i do?
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Re: Help please :'(

Postby xareasontolivex » Tue Nov 02, 2010 8:23 am

seek help.. quick.. go to someone's parents that you trust or a school guidence counselor or someone who can help you face to face.... other than that, keep quiet for a while. stay in your room when you can.. maybe write them a letter explaining what happened and all of your emotions toward them.... good luck.

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Re: Help please :'(

Postby LittleMissMeg » Wed Dec 29, 2010 10:54 am

I'm a bit of a rebel at school, i've dyed my hair blue, I've swore at the teachers, I've got into physical fights with other kids, and my mom used to cry about it whenever she got a letter from the school. One night I came home from an enjoyable day of skiving, and mom had gotten another letter. She just sat there ignoring me. I started crying and begged her to speak to me. Mom started crying too and finally looked at me. She just slapped the table and shouted at me "I give up, Meg! I give up! you happy now?". She went upstairs and locked herself in her bedroom. I bought her some flowers and did my best at painting her a picture. I kept doing stuff like that for weeks, but she didn't take any notice. I cooked her dinner but she wouldn't come down. So I piled all the stuff I had bought and made up in the middle of our table, and walked out slamming the door behind me. I just went to the park and waited on the swings until about one in the morning, and then I headed home. When I got there mom ran to me and gave me a big hug, we where both crying. The point is, your mom will probably love you still, although I don't know. Try and apologise with all your heart, act like you want to when you do, because you probably feel really bad.
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Re: Help please :'(

Postby xXxLouiseRxXx » Fri Jan 21, 2011 2:16 am

the best thing you can do is tell someone you trust and tell somone at school, Telling someone can be hard but its the best thing to do.x
i understand that you may have been angry how would not be if they were in a figt.
Has your parents ever done enything like that ever because it seems weird that they just did that out of the blue have they been strest latly.x :D
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Re: Help please :'(

Postby ScribbleScratch » Sat Jan 22, 2011 2:49 am

You could sit down with them at the dinner table and try to explain how it was an accident, and reassure them that you meant no harm and it won't happen again. It seems like your parents are both quite hot-headed, which is hard to bear.
If this doesn't work and they continue doing this, I suggest you go and spend some time with a close friend or family member, someone who will keep you safe.
You always could tell an authority what is going on at home too, such as a teacher that you trust or look up to.
I am verbally and physically abused, and I have been in a situation just like this, where I was throwing a tantrum and accidentally smacked my dad. That did not end well, and it wasn't very pretty, but once he found out it was an accident things were a little bit better. I just had to talk to him about it, and he eventually forgave me.
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