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He's trying to go too fast.

Postby jesuisfunky » Sun Apr 27, 2008 11:29 am

Okay so basically I am in a European country and I'm going back home in 1 week. I got together with a french boy last week and now we're going out. The only thing is... I let him finger me on our first get-together and now I totally regret it. It was the first time for me, and it all just happened too fast. Now he tries to take my clothes off every time we're alone and I feel uncomfortable about it. I don't want to go any further but I think that's what he expects. What do I do?
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Postby nanananaginasan » Tue May 06, 2008 3:04 pm

thats sad :[
youre body is something special. dont let him violate you. if you want to be with him thats one thing, but pressure is bad. and there are so many things that could happen. you could get an STD or even pregnant.
think about it like this: if he's acting like that with you after a week, how does he act with all the other people he just met?
good luck<3
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Postby theconman » Tue May 06, 2008 5:53 pm

tell the truth be honest and explain to him that you just need to slow it down a little because if he honestly loves you he will understand.
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Postby Sharon_tls » Thu May 08, 2008 6:38 pm

It seems as though you feel regretful about the situation that took place. It also sounds like you may be feeling uncomfortable. How do you think you can prevent an issue like this in the future?
It is normal for you to be experimenting as a teenager, however, it is also important that you feel comfortable enough to speak with your partner before any sexual encounters occur.
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