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fallen for my best friend

Postby Counters54 » Sun Apr 29, 2012 7:38 am

I'm kinda new to this so...
this is long and complicated, but I'll cut it down.
basically, i moved schools and i met this amazing new guy, and after a few days we were already inseparable. Then when he broke up with his ex we got closer, and we started dating after a few weeks, he was the first guy i let get really close to me, and then he broke up with me, but we've stayed best friends. 6 months down the line we're constantly arguing and it drives me mental that hes always seeing his ex before me considering that she asked him to sleep with her when he was with me. I hate how we're always arguing but he is my best friend and he means literally everything to me, but i still have feelings for him and i don't know what to do, as he knows that i still love him.

messed up or what? I really don't know what to do :/i'm just questioning if its worth it anymore.
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Re: fallen for my best friend

Postby QuincyNeuenschwander » Mon Apr 30, 2012 5:24 am

well what i would do is tell him how you feel, even if he already knows, if he truely is your best friend then he should understand. If you guys have dated and are still best friends then if dating didnt work out just be glad you are best friends now, rather than breaking up and not being friends anymore. (trust me it sucks to lose a friend after u have dated them). i wish you the best of luck. :)
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Re: fallen for my best friend

Postby Counters54 » Mon Apr 30, 2012 12:57 pm

Thank you :) Its actually got a lot better now were talking rather than just expecting the other to start an arguement. I don't really know what I should say but I'll find a way, thanks :)
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Re: fallen for my best friend

Postby michaela<3 » Thu May 03, 2012 9:03 am

I personally believe that if he was truely your friend .... and he knows how you feel about him then he would understand ... or maybe hes just confused on his feelings for you ... so you gotta think about both sides of the story .... try talking to him :))
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