I Need Advice.

[Cyadrieliz]

Well I started to go out with this guy in November 18,2011. I can say he was the best boyfriend ever. Me & him aren't together anymore. We broke up on our 4 month. But me & him been fighting non stop for the past month in a half since last night too. I really don't know what to do no more. I truly love the kid so much. But at this point I lost the faith in our relationship. I cry every night & day hoping that he's going to come back but he didn't. & one thing that kills me is that people told me from the beginning not to date him at all but I couldn't help myself I really liked him. He came into my life out of no where I wasn't expecting to date anyone in my junior year but I did date him. But at this point I'm confused bout everything I have mixed emotions bout everything now cause now two new guys came into my lives but I still love my ex still. & I like the other 2 guys but I don't know if I should move on or just sit here & keep on trying to fight for the relationship. I just hate hurting people. I really do. I'm the type of girl who stays to herself doesn't look for drama or even trouble at all. I'm just scared of losing the guy that I loved the most & the messed up part is that I drop my family & friends for him cause no one seem to like him no more so now at this point I'm alone in this world I have no one no more everybody seem to leave my side only cause I pick him over everyone else. So someone please help me I really don't know what to do anymore should I move on & pick one of the other guys or stay & try to fix things with my ex ?? Please someone help me

[Alex Tabat]

This could just be my own opinion, but maybe you need a break from thinking about it.
Nobody says that it has to go either way - you follow through or give it up.
Give it some time when it's not gonna be on your mind. Let yourself live a little.
Right now your feelings are holding you back and playing with your mind.
Take some breathing room, just enjoying some music, a walk with some friends, etc..
Sounds like your still young, and shouldn't have to face all this drama right now.
Relationships are a great thing, but it doesn't have to be the center of your life just yet.
You're still in touch with him right? Maybe that's one of the issues...
Maybe if you're not buggin' out over each other things will simmer down and get back to a good relationship. I don't think it would hurt him (depending how you go about it.)
But the same way that you don't like hurting others - don't let yourself be hurt!


If you don't think that in your situation this idea will work, feel free to say so...
maybe trying to work things out is a good idea. I've got experience in that direction as well.