Help A.S.A.P

[whocares13]

I have this sister who is always a b**** to me and rude to me and she never treats me well. She makes me feel like a loser and depressed and I hate her. Everyone tells me to let it go buti am tired of forgiving her everyday.she always gets mad at me for nothing. I am always there for her and I always stick by her and help her but she is never there for me. Sometimes I just don't feel like she counts as a sister? Any advice?

[sandracg]

OK your situation does sound bad but there is the whole "she is your sister matter" which quite frankly if you ask me does not mean you have to put up with so much cruelty from her. however there are ways to make thing better you can always try to sit down and talk to her make her understand that as a sister you should be together and united. you could also find some common ground with her and try to bond and hang out a bit more in an ambiance that will benefit both of you. or if all else fails there is always the cold shoulder approach, of course this one should be your last resort but soon enough she will realize what a great person you are and what it mean to her to have you there for advice. it like a hard hit into reality making her realize that she needs to be nicer just as you are to her. hope this helps.

[a7734]

My sister has been mean to me my whole life.. We're not really close at all, and when I try to bond with her, she just uses me for a short period of time, and then the next day continues to tease me. I understand what your going through. I ussually just try to ignore it, and try not to insult her back. That's what she's looking for, to make you angry and pick a fight. I've realized that she's not really a sister to me, more just like a roomate that'll be living with me for only 2 more years. It's sad, but that's just how it is for me. Try to get friend to replace that sister bond you've never had. It works, but just make sure you choose a good person. My sister has made me so depressed that I tried overdosing a couple months ago. Not worth it.. Inbox me if you need anything. Hope this helped.