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Did I do the right thing?

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Did I do the right thing?

Postby bcapers93 » Wed Mar 14, 2012 5:49 pm

Last Thanksgiving, my boyfriend and I of 19 months had sex. Every time we do it, we are always careful and use condoms. There have been a few false alarms but everything's been OK. However, on this day, we believe it broke. We weren't 100% certain, but just to be sure, we went to the store and bought plan b. Now four months later, talking to a friend who knew of this first when it had hapened, decided to bring this up and ask if we regretted our decision. I told her personally, I kind of do. I feel like I'll never know if that condom broke that day. What if it did? Then that means, by taking that pill, I stopped someones chance at life. I told my boyfriend and he told me we made the best decision for us at the time and that if he had been 100% certain it had, he wouldn't have let me take it. (He already has a baby with another woman BTW) But I'm not so sure... I cant help thinking what if? What if it did break? What if i had the potential to give life to a human being? Does that make me no less than a murderer, taking away that chance at a life? I know I'll never know, but it's eating me up inside. Especially if it really did happen, then I don't know if I would ever forgive myself... :( Did I do the right thing?
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Re: Did I do the right thing?

Postby yuyu55 » Thu Mar 29, 2012 7:41 pm

Well only u can figure out if u did the right thing, I'm guessing ur Wat, 19? To young. Got ur whole life ahead of u, and school to. If I was u, is wait til u both finish college, and get good, solid jobs.
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