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Am I burdening my best friend???

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Am I burdening my best friend???

Postby Thunder On My Parade » Thu Feb 23, 2012 4:22 pm

A lot has been going on lately in both of our lives, especially my best friend's. A month or two ago, her older sister tried to commit suicide, and thankfully she did not succeed. But her entire family except for her dad (her two older sisters and her mtoher and now her) have been and are seeing a pshychologist because her sister who tried to kill herself was suffering from depression.
In my life at home, I'm not really getting along with my parents, and I have this cold and distant feeling with them. I just feel every possible bad feeling towards them. Besides that, there are so many things about myself that I have issues with. Basically everything that any teenage girl would worry about or not feel confident about.
So my question is, sometimes I feel like telling someoen about how I'm feeling low, but I don't want to bother my best friend and have her worry about my health because she already has so much on her mind. Even though she told me that she's always there if I need someoen to talk to, I still don't feel right telling her how I feel. I don't know if I should...
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Re: Am I burdening my best friend???

Postby althera » Tue Aug 21, 2012 5:04 am

I think that you should ask her to be honest and to tell you if it's really okay. If you are there for her to listen to, then she probably meant it. If you ever need someone to talk to when you don't feel like you should go to her pm me...
Don't let the evils and darkness of the world bring you down. Be a warrior--fight for what you know is right. Be a healer--heal those who are hurting. And if you fall on the way, I'll always be right there to carry you.
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Re: Am I burdening my best friend???

Postby Thunder On My Parade » Tue Aug 21, 2012 8:50 am

Hey, thanks. I think I will, how do I do that?

It's been a while since I used this site, but there are some things I've come to realize that I can't talk about with her just because she's my best friend and I know she'll only always say things regardless of it's legitimacy to make me feel better.
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Re: Am I burdening my best friend???

Postby althera » Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:41 pm

Okay, that makes sense...I'll tell you if I think of anything else :)
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