I should of told him.

[emilypil96]

I had sex for the first time with an amazing guy, but i lied and told him i wasen't a virgin, and I don't know what do to now! I want to tell him, but i'm afraid that if I do he'll stop talking to me

[SimplyS]

To be honest if he's really that amazing as you say you shouldn't have had to lie to him about you being a virgin. I mean if he's so amazing why would he stop talking to you now just because youve told him the truth about your virtue. The only reason he can have for not talking to you anymore is for the fact that you had lied to him before. I think he should know the truth and if he decides to stop talking to you because you were a virgin and for that reason only then he wasnt a great guy to begin with. Best of luck. -S

[Elphie.QE.MDXXXIII]

Well, lying is wrong, but I don't know why you felt you had to lie about being a virgin. If he's as amazing as you say, why did you feel like you had to say you weren't a virgin. Besides, he might know already. I'm a virgin but I've had the talk, I've had health class, and I know that there are signs the first time that indicate whether you are or aren't a virgin. And I agree with SimplyS: if he's worth it, he'll stil talk to you even if you were a virgin. I don't think it should be too hard for him to forgive you for that. So, yeah, confess what you lied about and see how he reacts. God bless you!