hurting/hurted again :cry: :cry:

[hurting-one]

when i was younger i was both Raped and sexuly abused by my birth father and by my foster brother when i was older, i though i was ok dateing but my bf of 2 1/2 years dumpted me last nigh, because i wouldnt have sex with him. then he got angry and he attacked me forceing me to the ground where he forced his penis in me and he after he was done he said i was nothing, but a father f*** and i was discusting,good for nothing/no one slut,then he cleaned himself up and left he said if i can f*** my dad then he shouldnt have been held back i dono what to do please help me please please

[PGHS-387]

Hey, first off I'm sorry that your father and foster brother put you through that. I'll admit I'm a guy and having the total lack of respect towards a woman to do that kind of stuff to her makes me sick. I don't think anything I or anyone else can say will ever be able to really help you overcome such a terrible event like that and I'm really really sorry that it happened.
I'll be honest and say that I really don't know your (ex)boyfriend like you do, but I personally think that any guy who dumps a girl just because she won't have sex with him isn't quite right in the head to begin with. I just think that if a guy ends (or starts) a relationship on the basis of sex (or lack thereof) then there might be bigger problems to deal with than that of sex.
I know it's probably hard but I promise that it will get better, it might not be right away, and it might even get worse before it gets better, but it WILL get better. Trust me. Are you a Christian? If so there's nothing too small to share with the Lord, I know I tell him quite a bit.
Anyways, I sincerely hope things get better for you. If you want/need to PM me or anything I'll be more than happy to try and help any way I can.
God Bless and be strong.

[hurting-one]

maybe Chris is right, i am good for nothing and i desurved it? he had a right to do what he did to me, i was the one who was wrong not him me i desurved it.

[epicreader16]

honey ,
what they id was wrong both of them. No one deserves to be raped.No one deserves that. They were wrong to do that.

And your exboyfriend's dumping you on the grounds of you not wanting to have sex is a loser. Do not listen to what he said. And it was wrong of him to bring up your father like that.

I seriously hope it gets better. It can, but first you need to see that in know way did you deserve it...you deserve to be happy, not what they did to you...

Also if you ever need to talk to someone, advice, someone to listen or whatever, feel free to pm me...i understand what you are going through...Maybe i can help