Sick of being judged by my weight ! M I mad ?

[Helpingothers]

I am a 14 year old I go to a normal schl have normal teen behaviour d only thing is I have a disease cause of which m overweight n ppl judge me m tired of it ! My frnds aren't really frnds n dey judge me cause dey r lyk really thin n m nt ! M really loosing it wat should I do pls help me ! m I crazy 2 wana give up? M I mad 2 think being myself is useless? M I mad 2 wana sucide ?

[ana-mia]

Ok,

You're not mad, you're a girl who is judged because of how much they weigh. I don't know if you're on here because you want to develop an eating disorder, but let me assure you that's not the best option. You will be judged even more harshly for being super thin as being overweight. I used to be much larger and then when I lost weight everyone was so happy. Until I started to look super sick and gross, then I would hear people whisper things about how thin I was, about how I hardly ate. It's not worth it! You're beautiful just the way you are. Own it! You have curves use them! A lot of girls at that age still haven't hit full on puberty and they will eventually start gaining weight too. You will level out and become the perfect you soon.

[DareBear]

You are not crazy or mad. I have met so many stick-thin girls and lots of them are horrible looking, in fact I was one of them. They don't have any curves like hips, breasts, or butts. What's so interesting about a girl who doesn't have those qualities? Plus, you need the nutrients in order to have healthy, glowing skin. Most of them have very pale, grayish-like faces. Nutrients also help your eyes and hair. Who wants hair that doesn't grow and tired-looking eyes? Not me, nor does anyone else. I was a bit on the skinny side a year ago and even my grandparents would poke fun at me for being so skinny. From this, I just hope you realize that looking paper-thin is not pretty. In my opinion, I would much rather see an over-weight girl with a beautiful face and a beautiful personality, than a skinny girl who has a tired, sunken face with a horrible personality, any day. You are beautiful the way you are, trust me. Do not let suicidal thoughts get in the way of a whole life in front of you.

[haparnumela]

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[Helpingothers]

thank you dear bear for all d advice and d beautiful words