I know you probably see a lot of movies or tv shows were someone gets raped then their friend says "oh this is all my fault" when in reality it wasn't there fault. Well, thats not the case here.
Last year at the end of the school year, my best friend was dating a guy she really liked. He seemed like a pretty cool guy, got a long with our group of friends. I was talking with him on facebook (FB), and told him I had never seen my friend so happy. We started to talk guy to guy then he asked how far she's gone. I told him I honestly didn't know, but I said "maybe if you get close enough to her, you'll be her first." Two weeks later they split apart. I was being black mailed by someone who found out, if I didn't tell her they would. I told her what her exboyfriend, she hit me with the news that the he had raped her. Twice.
It's all my fault, I know it is, and I honestly don't know what to do. I'm going to have this on my conscience for the rest of my life. I never thought he was going to do that, I thought he was just going to treat her with respect, and be kind to her. He forced himself on her, and hurt her. Does anyone have advice for me?